Let’s look at others using the eyes through which we’d like to be seen.
The last place you look! Have you ever searched and searched for something, ultimately finding it in the last place you look? Suddenly, the search is over; you’ve found it and, hence, you stop looking. Sometimes, we do that with people. We look and look until we find the good we expect OR we search and search until we find the bad that we thought was there. Preconceived notions or prematurely formed ideas can influence our opinions and guide what we see in others.